My partner Philip and I met at the University of Florida in 1986. I was shopping for a Christmas present in a campus bookstore on my lunch hour and we happened to notice each other. "Eh, he's probably married," I thought.

I paid for my item, left the store and walked back to work, unaware that he was following behind me on his bike. When I was almost at the door to my job, he rode up beside me and asked me to lunch. I was happy to see he was interested, but I had to decline and told him I had to get back to work. "Sorry to bother you, I'm not very good at this," he said, and started to ride away.

"Hey! Come back!" I yelled, "I can meet you tomorrow instead!"

And we've been together ever since.

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Roller coaster riding, 1986.

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Our first house in Gainesville, circa 1986.

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House painting in Gainesville, 1987.

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Catalina Island, 1990.

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Our first apartment in Los Angeles, 1990.

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Philip and baby Jake in our backyard, 2002.

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Visit Philip's Website: http://www.philiphacker.com